Tuesday, June 21, 2022

Meetings - Information or decisions

Most people say they attend too many meetings. That may or may not be true, it depends on the type, and what for, of the meetings. A lot of people conduct and are forced to participate in lousy meetings. But effective and efficient meetings are a necessary and important part of a church or business leader’s life. Here are my thoughts about meetings.

 

I highly recommend that anyone who aspires to be a leader take a course and become skillful at facilitating meetings. I believe that most complaints about meetings stem from poor facilitation skills rather than from subject matter.

 

Often decision making meetings are called without adequate opportunity for people to think through the topic and determine their point of view. Try to communicate the information and objective ahead of time and only have the meeting to decide something.

 

Don’t underestimate the benefit of processing some types of information together. In some cases it is necessary for active explanation and exploration of ideas to form an opinion. In fact it is one of the important ways that we learn.  

 

Turn off the cell phone. Tell people not to call you during your regularly scheduled meetings. If they can’t make a decision without you during that time, Then don’t go to the meeting, you are obviously too important to what’s going on to leave and attend a meeting.

 

One thing that bugs me the most is side conversations in meetings. They are a bigger distraction than you might think and are rude to the speaker. They send the message that what you are talking about is more important than what the main speaker is saying.

 

The connect time before and after meetings is an important bonus for networking and feedback.

Tuesday, June 14, 2022

 Do not worry!

Are you a worrier?

What kind of things do you worry about?

It is common for people to worry during challenging & uncertain times.

Jesus in His gentleness spoke directly about worry.

 

Matthew 6:25-34

25 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?

28 “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? 31 So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. NIV


What does worrying gain us?

 How many times did Jesus say “do not worry”?  

 When something is mentioned 3 times in the scriptures it’s important.

 Do you believe that you are more valuable to God than birds & flowers?

 Do you feel that Jesus is telling us in this scripture that our provision is designed just like the birds & flowers?

 Is faith required? Faith for His provision? that He is able? that He cares?

 How do we build up our faith to not worry?

 Do I believe He loves me enough to provide for my needs? & is it by design? As His child? or do I some how think His provision is based on my worthiness?

How much security do you need to feel that God is providing for you?

He tells us to just seek first the kingdom, His provision is right there.

Even in times of scarcity we can have confidence in His Love & faithfulness.

Friday, June 3, 2022

 The Call


Paul urges us to live a life worthy of our calling. What percentage of the Christians that you know, do you think are doing that?


Called out of the life of the ordinary.


Jesus desires for things to happen through us. As He had a purpose, we have a purpose. Be disciples, make disciples & teach them. Read John 15:4-8. 


A brother recently shared that for him (doing) flows out of (being) in Christ. His presence radiates from our lives & impacts others. Do you think you are serving the body & others as the Spirit has led you?


I have been thinking a lot about the idea that (doing) flows out of (being) in Christ. Jesus said “apart from me you can do nothing”. Being in Him then is the key to being poured out, sent, or spent for Him. So to grow in this then, requires us to look inward before we see out flowing. 


So since we take the scriptures seriously, specifically what Jesus said about being a disciple, shouldn’t we then understand that at some point in our walk He will call us to be Holy Spirit  empowered co laborers with Him?  Can we just be consuming Christians? Is it His intention for us to just enjoy getting blessings, & live quiet & comfortable lives? Or are we to be giving & going like ones who are sent  as well?


As we can then, lets spend some time praying for the Gardner to make us branch’s that produce much fruit.

A peasant Christmas

 I enjoy the lights & a lot of the festivities of Christmas. But unless we appreciate the lowly circumstances surrounding Jesus’s birth ...